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In Loving memory of our Precious Son, 

JAMES CHARLES EDWARD HOPEY

SEPTEMEBER 25 1984 -JULY 8 2006

 

 God blessed us, September 25th 1984 with our Precious Son, Jamie, who blessed us each & everday with his loving, bright, dimpled smile, awesome personality, & great sense of humor.
God called Jamie home on July 08, 2006.

 

 

 God gave us a wonderful son,
His memory will never grow old,
He fashioned his smile out of sunshine,
He moulded his Heart of pure gold.
He needed a new star in Heaven,
A beautiful light to shine,
So out of this old world of sorrow,
He chose that Precious son of mine.


 

 

 I LOVE THIS PICTURE OF JAMIE OUR LAST XMAS MORNING 2-GETHER 2005 , HE WRAPPED RIBBON AROUND HIS HEAD & TURNED & FACED ME WITH HIS BEAUTIFUL SMILE , AND SAID" I'M YOUR GIFT MOM" ! OH, HOW TRUE ARE HIS WORDS !!

JAMIE IS A GIFT FROM GOD, AS IS ALL OUR CHILDREN.  OUR HEARTS & SOULS  ARE 4 EVER CONNECTED & WE WILL BE 2 GETHER AGAIN IN HEAVEN, WHEN OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR CALLS US HOME. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

                                                           
       



 









JAMIE 10 YEARS OLD










OUR PRECIOUS JAMIE 2 YEARS OLD 






 

 


JAMIE & MOM







JAMIE & DAD






JAMIE & BRANDON

Jamie was always so protective of his little Bro


 

Jamie & Friends.

JAMIE & ROBYN

 

MELISSA & JAMIE






STEPHANIE & JAMIE


LOVE THIS PICTURE JAMIE DOING HIS PLEDGE.



 

JAMIE & MEGAN




FAMILY & FRIENDS



   


JAMIE & HEATHER






JAMIE & MEGAN



 



THANKS TO EVERYONE, FOR HONORING JAMIE
ON HIS 23rd BIRTHDAY. SEPT 25TH
YOUR VISITS, THOUGHTS & PRAYERS WERE GREATLY APPRECIATED. THE CAKE, BALLOON RELEASE & FIREWORKS WAS AWESOME. IT WAS GREAT TO HAVE FAMILY & FRIENDS JOIN US ON THIS SPECIAL DAY. 


God Bless you Family & Friends



Mom, Sending  LOVE to Jamie.  





 JAMIE'S LOVE & PASSION FOR WHEELS



JAMIE'S HONDA CIVIC  HE REBUILT

"HIS BABY"






JAMIE'S ACCURA HE REBUILT 


JAMIE'S Clean PATHFINDER


JAMIE'S MUDDY PATHFINDER




JAMIE & BRANDON IN FRONT OF HIS FAVORITE CHEVY


















JAMIE & MOM OUR SOULS ARE 4 EVER CONNECTED.





MOM , BRANDON, JAMIE AND FRIEND STEPHANIE



Jamie 4 Days old, beautiful smiling face,You'll always be me my Baby.


 Our hearts are 4 ever broken, and the love and laughter has gone from our home, since Jamie left us on July 8th 2006, due to a tragic car accident. Everyday is a struggle and the pain only gets worse as each day passes without seeing your smiling face, hoping God is keeping you safe in all of his Glory & Grace. Not a moment goes by us, Jamie, that your not thought of ,loved & missed by MOM, DAD & BRANDON, & by many wonderful friends & Family. 
 
Love you 4 ever & alwyays My Precious Son!!!
xoxoxoxoxo......











God gave to me a gift
God gave to me a soul,
God blessed me very 'specially
And that is not quite all.

For God gave to me a beauty
The truest heart to find,
God gave to me a mother
Who always will be mine.

God gave me life to live
My being all from you,
Your beautiful soul bore me
No other one would do.

God gave to me a Mother
God gave all that is true,
For He gave His very best
When He said I could have you.
Love you forever Mom 
JAMIE & BRANDON

 






JAMIE



One of my favorite pics of Jamie, I told him when he put the hat on , " He looked like a Country Star".  You'll always be my Star Jamie......
Love ol Mom






JAMIE POURING A FULL TROTTLE ENERGY DRINK





















LOVE YOU JESUS




Jamie & Chris Demsey at  work. 







I'll speak to you through nature's gifts
>and I'll never be far from your door.
> When colourless clouds surround your mind,
> I'll paint them brightly with tones of love.
> I'll ask the birds who sing so sweetly
> if I can borrow their voice
> to remind you I haven't gone far.
> Every leaf or feather you see floating
> is me, asking you not to cry.
> Each pebble you see washed upon the shore
> is your reminder that I didn't die.
> The rippling waters are my giggles
> and the wave-tops are me saying hello.
> Never forget how much I love you. 










Thanks to Rose McPhee - Leo's Mom for sending me this Beautiful Butterfly to brighten my day!
























thanks to Lisa Copeland - in Memory of her Brother, Edward Copeland
for these beautiful graphics of Jamie,








My kitty ( Smokey) staring at Jamie's picture, " Look at the reflection of the cat  above Jamie











 









You'll always be my little Man

Love Mom




To My Dear Sons,
I know I tell you I love you,
But one thing I may not always
Remember to say
Is how proud I am of you, too?
I’m proud of your successes-
Of your hard work
And accomplishments,
Of your dreams
And plans for the future…
Yet even more important than these,
I’m proud of the person you are inside-
Of the goodness and generosity
Which is so much a part?
Of your daily life,
Of the warmth and caring
You show others.
You’re a very special person
And I want you to know
How lucky I feel to have been
The gifts of great Sons like you.

Love Always
MOM
xoxooox
































Thank You for signing into Jamie's web site, put together by love for our Precious Jamie. Please help us keep Jamie's memory alive, by lighting a candle or Leave a little note to let us know you are thinking of us.  Many thanks to Leo Mcphee's Family for Sponsorship of this Web site.
http://leo-mcphee.memory-of.com/
 














Jamie & Robyn 2005



God called our precious Jamie home on July 08, 2006 at the age of 21. 




Jamie & Girl friend Robyn's Graduation, 2005


OUR STORY
JAMIE'S  smile was his trademark with those perfect teeth, beautiful dimples and his pleasant personality.  You couldn't help but love Jamie.  People who just met Jamie for the first time was touched by his carefree ways. A room would  brighten when Jamie came in b/c the first thing you saw was his grin. He loved to make people smile and laugh. I once read "that if you have a sense of humor and can make people laugh, its the best way to display your blessed by the Lord b/c you enrich souls".
I truly believe that Jamie was blessed by the lord, b/c he brought so much Joy and laughter to people.  Jamie enriched so many lives for his short time with us, which was displayed at the largely attended funeral service,and out pouring of memorial Contributions.
 
Jamie will always be, an awesome big brother to Brandon 13.









Jamie & Little Bro Brandon

 He always displayed his love freely,very respectful and helpful to Mom and Dad. 

 




Were always so proud of Jamie, at everything he did, he always worked so hard and put so much effort to what he set forth to do, from rebuilding cars to school.  Graduated from Simonds High School 2002, while working since he was 15. It broke my heart even more when I received his acceptance letter for college this fall 2006, he had been on a waiting list for 2 years, and I had to let them know that he wasn't with us any longer. I know Jamie would have excelled in college and made us even more proud, if that could have been possible. 


Family trip to Florida
We all know Jamie for his love to have fun, as he quoted in his Year book, "life is too short not to have any fun". Jamie had so much fun just being with family and friends. 
 But his true fun was taking the pathfinder out and getting it muddy and dirty.  He loved the "May Runs",lots of trucks, mud, cold ones and enough food to survive on.  Jamie always told me it was better than Christmas,  goes to show what kind of guy he was.  He was down to earth and not focused on Materal things. He always impressed me by his love for nature and beautiful scenes, sunsets, and stars, which some people just take for granted. He would always tell me about the beautiful places he would go, while out on his 4x4, Dirt bike or snowmoble.
 

Jamie doing what he loved to do! 
 
 His car "Honda 4 ever" was his prize possession,went to Toronto 2 years ago to buy this car and he had just taken the car out of storage and had the motor all rebuilt, bought all new parts for it . I still remember how excited he got each time a new part would be delivered to the house.  He was looking forward  to Racing his Honda in the Miramichi Dragway in August.  He had it all shined up and the rims were all a glow and the exhuast sounded like a rumbling thunder, it was just too sweet. 
Then it all ended in  tragedy.



On July 8 th 2006, A beautiful Saturday afternoon which ended in a tragedy.  Jamie was putting the finishing touches and shine to his car, when he and his friend Justin went to take it for a spin up the road about 500 feet when he came around a corner and blew a tire and lost controll of the car and went down in a ditch.  Justin was first ejected from the car, but Jamie tried to stay with the car and put it back on the road, then  he also was ejected from the car, which left him with a broken neck and us with broken hearts!!  If I had one wish it would be to stop time on July 7th 2006 at least to let you know how much we love you , kiss you and maybe see you smile, but I know this will not happen unless in dream.  In stead we will hold on to our precious memories.
Life will never be the same, since the angels have called Jamie home.  We miss Jamie more and more each and every day!  Were  filled with so much pain and sorrow, nothing can ever take it away, just like the never ending love for you Jamie and all the wonderful memories.   I know you are in Heaven and you will prepare a place for us, so we can all meet again soon.  I will continue to say our prayers and hope you can send us some little signs to let us know you are still thinking of us. Shock 4 life not having you here!
Love Always 
Mom, Dad & Brandon. 
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
 
  




"
LIFE IS NOT A JOURNEY TO THE GRAVE WITH THE INTENTION OF ARRIVING SAFELY IN A PRETTY & PRESERVED BODY, BUT RATHER TO SKID IN SIDEWAYS, THOROUGHLY USED, TOTALLY WORN OUT & LOUDLY PROCLAIMING WHAT A TRIP!!!!!" 
Author unknown

Shocker 4 Life  



When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying. 


2002







Graduations 2002






Jamie's Kindergarden Graduation.





I thought I saw your face today
in the Sparkle of the Sun,
And then I heard an Angel say,
"His work on earth is done".
I thought I heard your voice today,
And then your hardy laugh
And then I heard the Angel say,
" His Memory will always last".
I thought I felt you touch today,
As a butterfly flitted by, and then
I heard the angel say, " the spirit
NEVER DIES."
I thought that I would miss you so,
And never find my way,
And then I heard the Angel say,
" He's with you eveyday."
 

Jamie & Mom 





















Dad, Brandon & Jamie.

   

I just randomly picked out  this poem from church bulletins, that I had saved from our church services back in the spring. "I thought I am going to save this poem, so I had put it in my bible for someday when "I leave the ones I love".  I was hoping they would find this and it would give them COMFORT.   
But never knowing I would be using it for my Son's Goodbyes.  I had gone to my bible to pray and I found this peom, that I had saved,so  when the funeral director asked if I had any poems that I would like read for my son's service, I chosen this peom that I believe Jamie would want us to remember this and I believe God gave me the message to save this bulletin, b/c it has so much meaning and it is so special.
 



Jamie's say's
 

REMEMBER THIS

If tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today.
I know how much you love me, as much as I LOVE YOU,
And each time you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, 
That an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand, 
And said my place was ready, In Heaven far above, 
And that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly LOVE.
But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,
for all my life, I'd always thouhgt, I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, so much yet to do, it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.  I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had. 
If I could relive yesterday, just even for while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized, that this could never be, for emptiness and memories, would take the place of me.  
And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of YOU and when I did, my heart filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through Heaven's Gates, I felt so much at Home. 
When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne,
He said, "This is Eternity and all I've promised you."
Today for life on earth is past, but here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last.
And since each day's the same way, there is no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful, so trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things, you knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven, and now at last your free.
So won't you take my hand? And share my life with me
So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we are far apart, 
for every time you think of me, I'm Right here, in Your Heart.

Love always
Jamie
xoxooxoxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxoooox









Jamie & best friend Mike. 
















Jamie & Melissa 




Jamie & his Dog Kiska







Kiska looking in the window for Jamie. 












Jamie's Dog Kiska. 




SONG TRIBUTE







Thanks AGAIN,TO everyone, for your love and support through this most difficult time of our life.  I know Jamie will watch over those ones, who watch over his love ones.  So please Keep his memory alive and He wants to remind everyone He loves you all. 
"SHOCKER 4 LIFE"

  



Jamie in his favorite Christmas hat. 
Wants to send a note to all of his special friends.
Of all the friends
I've ever met,
you’re the one
I won't forget.
And if I die
Before you do
I'll go to heaven
And wait for you
I'll give the angels
Back their wings
And risk the loss
Of everything
Just to prove
My friendship is true 



I still have Jamie's Care Bear from when he was little.












 








Thanks to Debbie, Rick Bulgin Sister for beautiful graphic.

http://rick-bulgin.memory-of.com/














Jamie's Accura that he rebuilt. Sweet. 









Thanks to Sue, Ashley,Mom for the Beautiful Pic
http://ashley-trappmmmboppedherwaytoheaven.memory-of.com/






Thanks to Danielle Mcphee 
For Designed picture.






















JAmie over looking Silver Hill, one of his favorite spots. 

















Thanks to Barb Geldart for 
Design picture 









Thanks to Isabella Carvalho's Mom-Clores 













Jamie & Chelsey Weston















Jamie & Robyn's Graduation 2005

Many Thanks to Lisa Copeland for these beautiful graphis
In Memory of Edward http://edward-copeland.memory-of.com/ 



































 








 

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Tributes and Condolences
In Our Thoughts!   / Charlene Jesso (Cousin)
Dear Jamie You are always in our thoughts and never forgotten...always in our prayers you and your family. Love Ya One day we will all see you again
Happy 25th Birthday dear Jamie   / Teri Drebit (Jaime's Mom) (Friend)
Pam and Family I wanted to let you know you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers on Jamie's birthday.  I hope the treasured cherished memories you carry help comfort your heart. Love Teri  (Proud Mom of Jaime Leigh Drebit) ...  Continue >>
Happy Birthday in Heaven Dear Jamie   / Leo's Mom
Awesome mom!   / Mary Thompson (friend of Pams )
Hi Pam. This is Mary Thompson. We used to email quiet a bit. I wanted to let you know Me Noah and our new addition Jack Michael are all doing well. On augustus 14 2009 I gave birth to another life and he is such a blerssing Pam. I keep remembering yo...  Continue >>
Happy Birthday to your mom Jamie   / Rose ,Angel Leo Mcphee Mom
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAMIE---JAMES CHARLES EDWARD HOPEY  / MOM, LOVES YOU     Read >>
HAPPY BIRTHDAY  / DIMPLES:)!     Read >>
TODAY YOU ARE 23 HAPPY BIRTHDAY HANDSOME JAMIE  / LEO MCPHEE FAMILY     Read >>
A DAY FIR 4a KING  / Happy Birthday     Read >>
HAPPY BIRTHDAY"KING JAMES"  / PARTY UP!!     Read >>
First Angel Year !  / Leo's McPhee Family     Read >>
FOR ANGEL JAMIES  / LISA COPELAND     Read >>
Merry Christmas  / Isabella Carvalho's Mom-Clores (Isabellas Heavenly Angel Friend )    Read >>
Thinking of you  / Angie     Read >>
Sending prayers  / Saralyn Smith (online)    Read >>
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