Happy St.Patrick's day Angel Jamie in Heaven  / Forever Family To Angel~Vanessa Borg~

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All Our Love

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Vanessa Family.

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I'm back  / Mary Thompson (Friend of familys )
WOW.... It is nice to be back on and being able to leave some inspirational messages for you Pam and your family. I miss chatting with you. I also have lots more pics of my boy who is now 15 months.... He is a blast and I wish you could meet him. I know you would have a blast with him. He is a afun abby. Well I am at work but will be on daily so have a good day Pam. Close

Happy Saint Patrick's day Jamie  / Leo McPhee's Mom

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THINKING OF YOU FOR RESURRECTION SUNDAY~~  / CATHY~MOM OF DAVID GIRAUD (CONNECTED BY GRIEF )

PAM,

KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TODAY AND ALWAYS. GOD BLESS YOUR TENDER HEARTS.

GOD'S SON IS RISEN~~

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condolences / Dana Glenn

Hello:

My name is Dana Glenn. My husband and I live in Lenoir, NC. I came across Jamie's website as I was searching for more information on Hopey Indians. I have adopted a mixed husky called Hopey, 6 years old. Jamie's site as touched my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you.

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SOMETHING I CAME APOND THAT I SAY EVERYMORING  / MELINA CHIASSON (FRIEND)

HI,

I FOUND A LITTLE SAYING THAT I SAY ALL THE TIME NOW, I BELIEVE IT SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING JAMIE PRACTICED.

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WAKE UP IN THE MORNING WITH REGRETS, SO LOVE THE PEOPLE WHO TREAT YOU RIGHT, FORGET ABOUT THE ONES WHO DON'T, AND BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

IF YOU GET A CHANCE, TAKE IT. IF IT CHANGES YOUR LIFE, LET IT. NOBODY SAID IT'D BE EASY, THEY JUST PROMISED IT WOULD BE WORTH IT.

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Special Angel Special Valentine  / Forever Family To Angel~Vanessa Borg~

Happy Valentine Jamie

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SENDING MY LOVE  / MOM, LOVES YOU 4. EVER &. ALWAYS

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY! SENDING  LOTS OF PEACE & LOVE TO MY PRECIOUS SON JAMIE, WHO IS ENTRUSED TO OUR FATHER AND DEAR JESUS IN HEAVEN. MAY YOU BE BLESSED AND GLORIFIED WITH ALL THE LOVE YOU SO DESERVE.

I WILL LOVE YOU 4 EVER & ALWAYS MY PRECIOUS CHILD. OUR SOULS WILL ALWAYS BE CONNECTED .  LOVE LIKE THIS DOESN'T  GOES AWAY, IT'S IN OUR HEARTS TO STAY. AND WHAT EVER OTHERS MAY SAY, I KNOW YOUR ONLY A BREATH AWAY.  I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY, AND ONE GREAT DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN, WHAT A GLORIOUS DAY THAT WILL BE AND OTHER WILL SEE AS  I TRUST & BELIEVE IN OUR SAVIOUR.

I MISS YOU BEYOND WORDS, AND WHEN I WANT TO GIVE UP GOD GIVES ME THE STRENGTH, LOVE AND WONDERFUL GIFTS FROM ABOVE THAT LETS ME KNOW YOU REALLY DIDN'T GO, FOR YOU LIVE IN ME, TIGHT IN MY HEART, WHERE IT ALL BEGAN FROM THE START.  SO ON THIS SPECIAL VALENTINES DAY JAMIE, BE MY VALENTINE AS YOU SHINE WITH JESUS.

I LOVE YOU DEAR LORD WHO LOVED ME FIRST.   

You are my heart, my hope, my help,
The passion that is me,
The whole of which I am a part,
My peace, my joy, my love
You are my future, present, past,
My ship, my sail, my ocean,
The wind that brings me home again,
The home for every motion.
You live within me, yet I am
without you all alone.
With you I am full of light;
Without you I am stone. ,
Ah, my love!

 Love longs for such
Sweet celebrants as this!
Love is a burden and a joy,
Slavery and bliss.
This day of love, come love with me,
Come sing with me my song.
Come be my Valentine, and I
Will love you my life long.

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HAPPY VALENTINES PRECIOUS JAMIE~HUGS TO MOM  / CATHY~DAVID'S MOM GIRAUD (VISITOR)
KEEPING YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS, LOVING FAMILY IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. MAY GOD SURROUND THEM WITH HIS LOVING ARMS, GIVING THEM STRENGTH, COMFORT AND PEACE IN THE COMING YEARS, KNOWING THEY WILL SEE YOU AGAIN~ GOD BLESS YOUR HEARTS!
M. CATHY GIRAUD ( DAVID'S MOM )

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HAPPY VALENTINE'S JAMIE  / LEO'S MOM

 

 

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SO VERY SORRY FOR THE TRAGIC LOSS OF YOUR PRECIOUS SON  / CATHY~~MOM OF DAVID GIRAUD~~ (VISITOR)
MY HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES ON THE TRAGIC DEATH OF YOUR PRECIOUS SON, JAMIE. WHAT A WONDERFUL SMILE, HIS STORY TRULY BROKE MY HEART. WE ARE STRANGERS CONNECTED BY GRIEF, BUT SOMEDAY WE WILL CELEBRATE TOGETHER, WHEN WE ARE RE-UNITED WITH OUR SONS AGAIN! KNOW THAT ALL WHO LOVE AND MISS JAMIE ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS. MAY GOD SURROUND YOU WITH HIS LOVE AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND COMFORT.

GOD BLESS!
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Hi Jamie  / Leo McPhee Mom
Jamie I am sorry that I have been away,But I am lost ,confused it's almost two year since I held ,kiss,my Leo it is very hard I struggle alot 
Your mom is amazing she always seems to know when I down same as the Jersey Girls I wish I knew their names they are truly wonderful amazing girls they also struggle with the loss of a dear friend I believe in my heart Jamie that you ,Leo ,mark,Luke are always with us sometimes I feel it but I have seemed to have lost Leo again maybe he is on a new journey helping other families I feel Jamie you are a teacher in Heaven showing all the love ,glory up above Jamie your amazing smile will continue to light up the lives of all how knew you but Jamie your spirit will FOREVER BRIGHTEN THE SKIES OF HEAVEN!!!!!!!!!!

LOVE FOREVER

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Jersey girls  / MISSING YOU (XOXOXOXO)
Hi Hopey Family...Love to you all & may all our Canadian friends have a BLESSED NEW YEAR.  I know the holidays are horrible...They are over & we made it.  We made it thru another heart wrenching time of year with out our angels here...but we know they are not very far...They stay close to all who love them....I know that because otherwise we would NEVER had made it thru another Christmas w/out them.  We are always thinking of our Canadian friends & angels. We pray for you each & every day. We know you know we think of you. The sites are so hard to come to sometimes because it makes it all to real...like here I am but you can't touch me...God its painful...& your sweet handsome Jamie...and young handsome Leo...Well I don't understand why God had to take them away from their beautiful families that miss them & love them so much. Remember You are 4ever in our Close

HAPPY NEW YEAR JAMIE  / Rose Leo's MvPhee Mom
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Merry Christmas Jamie  / Leo McPhee Mom



A Christmas Poem
by Helen Steiner Rice

I have a list of folks I know, all written in a book
And every year when Christmas comes, I go and take a look,
And that is when I realize that these names are a part
Not of the book they are written in, but really of my heart

For each name stands for someone who has crossed my path sometime,
And in the meeting they've become the rhythm in each rhyme
And while it sounds fantastic for me to make this claim,
I really feel that I'm composed of each remembered name

And while you may not be aware of any special link
Just meeting you has changed my life a lot more than you think
For once I've met somebody, the years cannot erase
The memory of a pleasant word or of a friendly face

So never think my Christmas cards are just a mere routine
Of names upon a Christmas list, forgotten in between,
For when I send a Christmas card that is addressed to you,
It is because you're on the list that I'm indebted to

For I am but a total of the many folks I've met,
And you happen to be one of those I prefer not to forget
And whether I have known you for many years or few,
In some ways you have a part in shaping things I do

And every year when Christmas comes, I realize anew,
The best gifts life can offer is meeting folks like you.
And may the spirit of Christmas that forever endures
Leave its richest blessings in the hearts of you and yours

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Dec. 5th, 2007 We have so much in common  / Pat Holden

Dear Pam,
     I came across Jamie's site today. My 21 year old son Anthony died 4-28-06, he was born Dec. 22nd 1984. Our boys were the same age.  I see he already turned 23, I have that coming right up.  I'm dreading this whole month, when he was born, i brought him home from the hospital Xmas morning, so it use to be such an exciting time for us as a family. I read all your tributes and looked at all the pictures. This is a wonderul way to pay tribute to our boys.  Jamie reminds me alot of Anthony, always smiling, loved their families, had alot of friends. They were so young.  I still can't really believe this has all happened. As a Mom we never can let go, we brought them into this world, we have such a deep bond that is unbreakable.  Anthony died at his Grandma's, he had a anurism in his sleep. I went to wake him that morning and found him face down. that is a horror that I can't shake. It helps but at the same time its so sad that there are others out there going through this. Know that I will be thinking of you and all your family, maybe our boys have met and are watching over us from above.  Love to you   anthonysurvilla.memory-of.com

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LETTER FROM HEAVEN  / MOM LOVES YOU JAMIE

To My Dearest Family: 

Some things I’d like to say, but first of all to let you know that I’m okay. 
I’m writing this from Heaven, where I dwell with God above where there are no more tears or sadness, there is just eternal love. 

Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight, remember that I’m with you every morning, noon and night. 

That day I had to leave you when my life on Earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said I welcome you. 
It’s good to have you back again you were missed while you were gone, and as for your dearest family they’ll be here later on.

 I need you here so badly as part of my big plan, there’s so much that we have to do to help our mortal man.
 Then God gave me a list of things, He wished for me to do and foremost on that list of mine is to watch and care for you. 
And I will be beside you every day and week and year and when you’re sad, I’m standing there to wipe away the tear. 
And when you lie in bed at night the days chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you, in the middle of the night.

 When you think of my life on Earth, and all those loving years because you’re only human, they are bound to bring you tears. 
But do not be Afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain, remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. 

I wish that I could tell you of all that God has planned, but if I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand. But one thing is for certain; though my life on Earth is over I am closer to you now, than I ever was before.

 And to my very many friends, trust God he knows what is best. I’m still not far away from you; I’m just beyond the crest. There are rocky roads ahead of you, and many hills to climb, but together we can do it, taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy, and I’d like it for you too that as you give unto the World, so the World will give to you.

 If you can help somebody, who is in sorrow or in pain, then you can say to God at night, my day was not in vain. 
And now I am contented, that my life, it was worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made everybody smile.  

So if you meet somebody, who is down and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. 
When you are walking down the street, and you’ve got me on your mind I’m walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind, And when you feel the gentle breeze, or the wind upon your face, that’s me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace.
 And when it’s time for you to go from that body to be free, remember you’re not going, you are coming here to me.
 And I will always love you from that land up above.
 Will be in touch again soon,
 P.S. God sends His Love. 

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Pam / Sunshine Greeter (^l^ friends )
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Christmas in Heaven  / Leo's Mcphee Mom

CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN
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We're wondering what Christmas in Heaven is like
As we grieve alone and pray,
longing for one who has gone before
To spend Christmas in Heaven today..

And so in our dreams we wander far
From the scenes and sounds of earth
‘Til we catch the strains of the Heavenly choir
As they sing of the Christ Child's birth. .

The Angels we envision there
As they join in the festive play
And there amid the throng is our Loved One
Spending Christmas in Heaven today..

There's joy in the faith that teaches
When our life's work is done
Of a place in Heaven awaiting
And the crown we worked for is won..

In our grief may we learn well the lesson
So to work and suffer and pray
As to merit the joys of our loved one
And to spend Christmas together some day.

~~ Author Unknown

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Thanksgiving in NJ  / OK
Dear Pam...Your an angel sent to us from Heaven, writing to us all the time & worrying about us...well we are always thinking & praying for you too, visited MArk for Thanksgiving & guess what two deer, a buck at least like 8pointer or something & his doe grazing on a bush by Marks grave...just a sign of beauty that makes you wonder??? DID THIS GIFT COME FROM ABOVE? Had an OK Thanksgiving...Our hometown football game HS North plays HS South Luke, Mark & So many of us went to North but we have friends in South too... Its a fun game but North hasnt won in years we play South they have been state champs for the past 4 years so we never really have much of a chance, just a big gathering day for everyone to see each other & gossip...ya know the old bullcrap, but anyway things have been really depressing for North in the past few years South has been spared but we've been hit hard...lost Luke & Mark to a freak accident, then our classmate grad from North 2001 was killed in VT shootings...RIP JULIA...Then Dana a month aga dying from a car crash that no drugs, alchol or anything involed just another freak accident, & lindsay who was in the car her best friend,, still in the hospital recovering from bad injuries...just so depressing, our school has had enough,, we were tied at half time!!! Shockingly 7-7...but South came out after half & just were on fire started scoring one two three times we were definitly going to lose no time left to win...when all of a sudden we had a steaker...he ran the whole length of the football field over a fence & down the road before the cops could catch him...so many have it on camera I bet it goes on youtube soon, it was a junior from HS North he just wanted to make everyone laugh, It was funny, & NOT but thats the state of mind were in...its like we can't stand the frowns & its taking the "CLOWNS" of the school to say OK we have had enough now lets have some SMILES:)...how can ya not laugh at some idiot who is running naked with a shirt wrapped around his head...we are so desparte to laugh here in Mtown NJ that we have resided back to kids streaking just to make people laugh again...WELL IT WORKED made my whole day LOL!  I know the humor of Mark & Luke & they were probably laughing from Heaven so loud!!! Jamie & Leo too Ya think??? I do ya had to see it at first noone could believe their eyes it got dead silent and everyone just was like is this really happening??? I was lol  desprate thats what we are here desprate for a good time...People like you Pam help us to keep our sanity, people who can truly understand because so many people are aching here we are just going crazy we are lost souls, we need to get it together in this town, we have made the New York news from all this crap, all the tragedys our town has had in a short period of time & thats not the way we want to make the NY NEWS....we want PEACE here we want to be happy again, we want our friends BACK!!! we cant have everything we want but we can get a smile once in a while & we have gained wonderful friends like You & Rose...hope Rose is doing OK, send her our love,, we have just been so dam sad here,,,but we will overcome, I thank you again for all your kind words cant tell you how much they mean to us...really helps ALOT more than you could ever know...So glad Mark made a visit to you...Jamie sent him to you to cheer you up like Mark, Luke, Julia & Dana sent us that streaker...had to be a laugh to them in Heaven too......God I would do anything for one more minute with any one of them...Heavens a brighter place with our wonderful angels but I think we needed them here to brighten our towns more....Love Ya thanks for the prayers...gooble gooble <3 Jersey Girls who love you so <3  Love to your family too...& DIMPLES WELL U KNOW WE ARE ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU Close