Thank you Jamie  / Leo McPhee Mom
If I should ever leave you,
Whom I love
To go along the silent way,
Grieve not,
Nor speak of me with tears.

But laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you there
For I will come-I'll come!
Would I not find a way,
Were tears and grief not be barriers?

And when you hear a song or see a bird I loved,
Please do not let your thoughts of me be sad.
For I am loving you just as I always have . . .
You who were so good to me!

There are so many thing I wanted still to do-
So many things to say to you . . .
Remember, please, that I did not fear death.
It was just leaving you that was so hard to face.

You cannot see beyond this life
But this you know . . . I loved you so
Never doubt that I am with you still!
For love does not die with the body
And nothing in heaven or on earth
Can keep apart those who love.

~ Author Unknown ~ 

Dear Jamie 
I wanted to say thank you for sending your mom to me,we both cry together,we laugh together,we talk about our sons and our memories.
Jamie your mom I truly believe has grow to love my son like I have grow to love you ,Jamie I think about you everyday I pray for you each night ,your mom and I both light candles and we also BELIEVE OUR BOYS ARE WITH US ALWAYS
Jamie I also wanted to say thank you for your little brother Brandon every time I see him my heart melts he has the most amazing smile  he such a cutie or to be correct Brandon is very handsome just like his Dad & Big Brother,
Jamie your family loves you beyond any words,they miss you beyond the stars they have the most beautiful hearts your mom is there for all and I love her and I wish I could ease her pain but I cannot because losing a child is losing apart of your soul and the pain is always with us but each day is a new day and we struggle .
we know that we have our boys with us ,we know we have God with us ,we know we have each other to lean on 
JAMIE HOPEY
 A SON 
A FRIEND
A TRULY AMAZING ANGEL 
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Jamie & Pam forever will I love you  / Leo's McPhee Mom

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love you Pam  / 4EVER &. EVER
Hey Dimples GOOD MORNING to you & all our ANGELS...Send mom & Brandon some strength as they school shop 4Brandon~ they LOVE & miss U so much...Wish They weren't all they way in Canada I would LOVE  to someday meet them...If I know you angels you WIll arrange for that soon...Next month your Bday it will be here b$ ya know it we will be praying 4ur family & partyin 4U & Leo!!! Keep sendin us a those signs & keep sending us those butterflies here in NJ...got lots of pics. of butterflies this summer to take back to school with me...School 2 more years of college & then THE REAL WORLD somedays I get alitte scared of the "Real World" but with all you angels by my side I 4ever know Ill be OK...Love ya & ThankU... Close

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU  / SEND LOVE HOME TO MOM SHE NEEDS YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAMIE <3 Close

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY DIMPLES  / WE LOVE YOU &. THAT SMILE OF YOURS :)
HEY HANDSOME ANGELS LEO & JAMIE HAVE A BLAST OF A PARTY THIS WEEKEND WE WISH WE WERE PARTIN WITH YOU..SWEET DIMPLES SOMEDAY WE WILL MEET I WILL KNOW THAT SMILE FROM OVER THE GATES OF HEAVEN CAUSE YOULL BE A SHININ WE LOVE THOSE DIMPLES GOD BLESS YOUR MOM DAD & BRANDON THIS WEEKEND STAY CLOSE TO LEOS FAMILY TOO LOVE TO YOU HAVE A GREAT PARTY & MARKY BETTER MAKE THAT CAKE EXTRA SPECIAL ITS FOR 2 THIS TIME WE LOVE YOU ALL Close

JAMIE'S SEP BIRTHDAY TRIBUTE  / Precious Memorials
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To my greatest friend Pam we're two mom connected in grief by our sons  / Leo's McPhee Mom
Please don't mourn for me, I'm still here, though you don't see. I'm right by your side each night and day, and within your heart I long to stay. My body is gone, but I'm always near. I'm everything you feel, see or hear. My spirit is free, but I'll never depart, as long as you keep me alive in your heart. I'll never wander out of your sight, I'm the brightest star on a summer night. I'll never be beyond your reach, I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach. I'm the colorful leaves, when fall comes around, and the pure white snow that blankets the ground. I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond, the clear cool water in a quiet pond. I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring, the first warm raindrop that April will bring. I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine, and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine. When you start thinking there's no one to love you, you can talk to me through the Lord above you. I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees, and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze. I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep. I'm the smile you see on a baby's face. Just look for me, I'm everyplace Close

FACE OF AN ANGEL  / LISA XX

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for u pam  / LISA XX

love and hugs 
lisa xx

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hi jamie angel  / Lisa

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SOOOOO CUTE  / DIMPLE FACE JAMIE
Such a handsome  2 year old~Pam you were blessed to have such a angel in your life...He wasn't here near long enough but while he was on earth the impact & Joy he has left on so many makes me smile knowing that God has let me into your life to get to know YOU & Jamie such a special angel...We thank God daily for our extended family in Heaven & In Canada & we will carry you forever with us in our hearts & souls Close

lyrics to a song for Jamie & his family & friends  / Leo Mcphee Mom


song is Radio in heaven
Your time has already come and I don't know why 
The last thing that I had heard
you were doin' just fine
It seems like just yesterday
I was laughing with you
Playing games at Grandma's house
well you taught me well, didn't you?
I hope I'm just like you

Do they have radios in heaven?
I hope they do
'Cause they're playing my song on the radio
And I'm singing it to you

You left before I had a chance to say goodbye
But that's the way life usually is
it just passes you by
But you can't hold on to regrets and you can't look back
So I'll just be thankful for the times that I had with you
I hope I'm just like you

Do they have radios in heaven?
I hope they do
'Cause they're playing my song on the radio
And I'm singing it to you
If they don't have radios in heaven
here's what I'll do
I can bring my guitar when my time is up and I'll play it for you

Tell me can you hear me now
if not, then I can try to sing real loud
What's it like up on the other side of the clouds?
I hope I'm just like you
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Happy Birthday Pam  / Love From The Jersey Girls

Happy Birthday Pam~The angels in Heaven sang a song for you...God Bless the mother of such fine young boys who both obviously love their momma an awful lot & you love them too...Thats what this world needs more loving people & alot less hate Hope Your Day was fun Hope Jamie sent You a sign 'cause we know he was with you!!!  jersey girls (XOXOXOX)

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAM  / Rose &. Danny McPhee Leo's Parents

My dearest Pam I wanted to wish you a peaceful Birthday,I know how sad you are I hear your pain each time we talk on the phone.
our boys are friends in heaven as we are here you & I .
Your Birthday wish will come true it will be in your heart you will smile softly and say Jamie thank you for the loving memories you have shared with me .
Pam Hopey you are a truly amazing ,beautfiul,sweet,kind,caring woman,your are a amazing mom,and a great friend.


       ''HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAM HOPEY''
                              

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My dear Jamie  / Rose Leo's McPhee Mom

Dear Jamie 
I am going away for a few days ,I really don't want to but my husband wants to go so I will, i'm afraid Leo won't be able to find me,so Jamie will you keep him busy for me ,I kind of think of you  as Leo big brother if Brandon does not mind.your little brother is so amazing,your mom she has the most beautiful soul of anyone I have met ,she prays daily for you but Jamie she prays daily for my son Leo also for Mark & Luke.
Jamie while I am awaycould  you keep a close eye on mom for me she very important to me and I will miss our daily talks,I was out to see her last week she looked good and your garden was so precious .any way I got to go pack but I will take you in my heart as I travel .Not to far we are going to travel along maine
love & prayers always
my Jamie Angel 

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HAPPY NEW BRUNSWICK DAY JAMIE  / Rose &. Danny McPhee Leo's Parents

JAMIE HAPPY NEW BRUNSWICK DAY JAMIE!!

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Glad you bday was fun  / We Thought Of You All Day
Well Brandon SOO glad to hear you had so much fun...Jamie definitly helped mom pull that off, & getting the "Girls" there well YEAH! whats a party without girls right!!Girls just wanna have fun & they sure can get a party going. Pam your a strong lady my mom is so impressed by your strength I talk to her about you & she says how strong you are & how Jamie is helping you & your family from above~my Mom shes the real crazy "talking to the afterlife lady" she has read every book been to every dam medium shes seen Sylvia Browne a few times & this John Edward well they are practically on a first name basis shes followed him since before anyone new him back in the 90s shes going to see him again on Dec.5 2007 In Atlantic City NJ shes a bit obsessed but shes had reading, & she says when she watches his magic even when he isnt reading her shes always so amazed...She says hes the real thing especially after he gave her a reading once she came home & cried for 2days but they were tears of joy she said...She goes like this"I cant believe I can actually communicate with my passed loved ones even watching other peoples stories shes always so happy when she has seen John then after a few months she needs her "fix" as we tease her & she goes back for more...Shes even talked to my friends the time she brought me Mark & Luke talked it was the most amazing thing ever...Maybe one day they will all come through together, can you imagine if John says YOUR FRIENDS FROM CANADA ARE HERE~Leo & Jamie 'cause he had Mark & Lukes name perfect! well ill keep in touch & let U know ttyl~~JERSEY GIRL Close

THANKS FOR BEING HERE 4 BRANDON TODAY  / PAM, MOM (2 JAMIE & BRANDON )

JUST A NOTE TO THANK YOU ALL 4 HELPING US TO CELEBRATE BRANDON'S BIRTHDAY TODAY ,TO YOU WHO VISITED US AND WHO'S THOUGTHS WITH WITH US TODAY IT'S GREATLY APPRECIATED. IT WAS COMFORTING THIS EVENING WHEN THE TEARS STARTED TTO FLOW. AFTER WARDS I TURNED MY THOUGHTS TO BRANDONS SPECIAL DAY.

BRANDON WAS SO SURPRISED WITH EVERYTHING!! I THOUGHT HE MAYBE KNEW I WAS PLANNING SOMETHING , BUT HE DIDN'T AND  TOLD ME LATER, "I DIDN'T KNOW MY MOM KNEW HOW TO GET INTOUCH WITH  ALL FRIENDS," ( I THINK HE WAS REFERRING ABOUT THE GIRLS" )JUST LIKE JAMIE, WOULD  BLUSH AROUND A PRETTY GIRLS.  IT WAS NICE TO SEE HIS FRIENDS, AND SEE HIM SMILE AROUND THEM. 
 AS WE PLAYED WASHER TOSS, THAT WAS FUNNY AND THEN THE WATER BALLOONS GOT THE GIRLS RUNNING AND LAUGHING.  THEN THEY ALL WALKED TO THE STORE TO BUY MORE BALLOONS, AND I THINK THAT WAS PROBABLY A FUN WALK FOR THEM AND EVEN POOR DEVIN WITH THE BROKEN LEGG, CAST AND ALL HAD FUN ON THE WALK. BACK WITH MORE BALLOONS AND MORE WATER BOLLOON FIGHTS.  
THEN FINALLY I BROUGHT OUT THE HOME MADE WASHINGTON PIE, WITH MONEY ( THIS WAS GRAMIE'S TRADITION,WHO'S BAKING THEM IN HEAVEN,NOW I'M SURE OF IT, SHE'S SPOILING HER GRANDSON JAMIE.  ALL SEEMED TO ENJOY.  BRANDON OPENED PRESENTS WITH HIS FRIENDS.   THE BONFIRE WAS NICE,  AND THE BOYS ENJOYED WORKING ON THE BIKE LATER AND SLEEP OVER. 

SO, THANKS TO ALL AND THANKS TO JAMIE, B/C I KNOW HE GAVE ME THE IDEA,AND I KNOW HE WOULDN'T MISS HIS BROTHERS BIRTHDAY, HE GAVE ME ENGERY,  WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE THE ENGERY AND YOU JUST DON'T PLAN FROM ONE DAY TO THE NEXT, IT TAKES EVERYTHING TO GET THROUGH A DAY AND MOST OF THE TIME , IT'S HARD TO SMILE AND ENJOY ANYTHING WHEN YOUR IN SO MUCH PAIN.  BUT IT WAS GOOD TO SEE BRANDON SMILE AND SEE THE SMILE OF FAMILY/ FRIENDS. THANK YOU DEAR GOD. 
LOVE ALWAYS 
PAM

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HAPPY HAPPY 14th BIRTHDAY  / CUTE BRANDON<3
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRANDON!!!! 14 kisses for you & oh yeah here's one for good luck this year Your a special boy, Who has a special angel!  I wish I could send you back your big BRO for your 14th but remember ALWAYS BRANDON JAMIE IS ALWAYS NEAR THE ONES HE LOVES and for you as his little bro. He will continue to look out & protect you from Heaven as he would if he was here...So Brandon ENJOY  2DAY Its YOUR SPECIAL DAY  HAVE LOTS OF FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS! enjoy being a boy Oh what I'd give to be 14 again!!!  We love you sweet Brandon we hope to one day meet you all & give BIG HUGS for ourselves til then heres a big Jersey Girl & Brandon Group HUG ((00000000000000000)) we LOVE GROUP HUGS Love Ya dont forget HAVE FUN~~~Love from "The Jersey Girls" Close

True friendship lives on FOREVER  / Jamie &. Mike True FRIENDS!
HERE's To YOU Mike & Jamie BEST FRIENDS ARE FOREVER!!! (People let me tell ya bout my BEST FRIEND) Oh we know Mike that miserable feeling when you lose your BEST FRIEND...but we also know how they are never really gone they live on in your heart & walk beside you everyday...I know thats not the same...OH HOW I KNOW I so many times want to call Mark, or go stop by his house, it still seems surreal that hes in Heaven but the one thing that keeps us alive & kickin as they say is kNOWING WE WILL BE WITH THEM & ENJOY THEM AGAIN SOMEDAY~Your a handsome Guy...maybe one day we can all meet & then our angels will be so happy that were all finally meeting...Stay strong Love Forever from the Jersey Shore to Canada"The Jersey Girls" Close